Information
for International Students
Life
changes
can be both exciting and difficult, especially when one is far
from home and one’s natural support systems. Counseling
Services acknowledges these challenges and provides support and
assistance to many international students.
What
are some common concerns for international students?
Everyone
goes through an adaptation process when they move into a new culture.
These are some things that make this process even more difficult:
• Having to use a foreign language
• Uncertainty about how to interact with people in authority
• Not sure how to make new friends
• Not having a clear idea of how to date people from different
cultures
• Not being able to express yourself in your usual way
• Different food and eating customs
• Different religious practices
• Differences in educational systems
• Having people get impatient with you when you don’t
understand things
• Having to deal with prejudiced people
These
difficulties and others may lead to confusion and other uncomfortable
feelings such as feeling:
• lonely
• homesick
• helpless
• overwhelmed
• unsafe
• unsure of yourself
• less competent
• like you don’t belong
• angry or frustrated
• afraid of the unknown and unfamiliar
• confused about which values to live by
• unsure of whether to stay in the U.S.A. or go back home
• unsure how to raise and relate to your children in the
new culture
Added
to all of these worries, you are also faced with adjusting to
university life. You may face challenges regarding making career
choices, academic pressures, studying effectively, and developing
and maintaining relationships with others.
Counseling
Services is available to help students handle these challenges.
What are counselors and counseling like?
It
is often difficult for students to discuss personal problems with
a stranger, but Counseling Services has licensed professionals
who are open and knowledgeable. They also strive to educate themselves
about issues that many international students face. Counseling
provides students with an opportunity to discuss the problems
they are facing with someone who will listen without judging them.
Counselors then help the student assess the situation, review
the options available, and may provide information that the student
needs to resolve the problem.
Everything
discussed with a counselor is strictly confidential and will not
be provided to anyone. Even the fact that one is being seen by
Counseling Services is private and not shared with anyone, including
a student’s parents, home government, or other offices on
campus, without the student’s written permission. The only
exceptions to this confidentiality occur when it is clear that
a person’s life is in danger, a child is in danger of being
harmed, or when information is required by a court of law within
the United States.